What if “coming out” wasn’t a big deal?
What if there was no drama attached to revealing the True You?
What if you could put all the ‘bullshit’ aside and focus less on who you have sex with and more on who you are as a person?
What if we put to rest the idea that coming out is hard, and play with the idea that coming out is easy?
You’re in the right place.
If you are Confused, Frustrated, Angry or Scared about how to ‘Come Out‘ to others or even to acknowledge your sexuality to yourself, I can help. I know… I’ve been there… done that.
I’ve “Come Out” so many times I’ve lost count! And I’m 63 (at last count). But don’t hold that against me! And I’m still ‘coming out’! Yes I know, it’s scary:-)
If you are reading this page, it’s time for YOU to let go of the Drama and Live your DREAM.
Life is too short to live someone else’s life.
It’s your life and no one can live it better than you!
So, here are some questions for you:
- Who are you really? You know, that YOU that has been tucked away for safe keeping… hiding from the hurt, the guilt, the judgement… that part of you that is hidden deep down underneath the façade you show to others? Who would you be and how would you live your life right now, if you were the only one you had to please? How different would your life be?
- Do you find it hard to live your own life the way you would like to, because of what others might think?
- Do you ‘play it safe’ and… live your life their way? You know… when they say things like… “They won’t understand!”… “What will ‘they’ say?”… “Why can’t you be like …”?
- Do you feel like there’s a tug-of-war going on inside your head? Do you have this tape running in your head that says …
- “They know best.”
- “I love them so I should do what they say.”
- “I’ll lose them (or lose their love) if I don’t do what they say.” (or something similar?)
It can take time to uncover the REAL YOU. After all, you have perfected your method of hiding from the world over many years most likely. And that’s perfect because that’s where you are. You can only change your life from where you are… right now.
Spare a thought for parents… we all have them (or had them) in and out of our lives at various times … for better or for worse.
Parents (no matter if the child is 6 or 66)
- Do TRY to do their best at raising their kids (us). Whether they are parents of LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) kids or Straight kids, it doesn’t matter.
- Can do, and often do do… “Royal Stuff-ups” or “Screw-ups”… (even “F… ups) Pardon my ‘French’. At least according to the kids! I know a person in their 50′s that is still complaining about their mother and how she stuffed up their life! You really don’t have to hang on to that story!!! It happens to all of us. It’s life! You CAN choose to Let It Go.
So, back to the parents… WHY the trauma and the drama?
- They want to help and often don’t know how.
- They don’t want you to get hurt so they try to ‘protect’ you Their way.
- They worry about what others may think, or say, or do.
- They may have no idea what to do or how to deal with a ‘gay’ child. After all…
You didn’t come with a “How to Raise a ‘Gay’ Child” manual. (Maybe you can write one!)
OK, let’s get down to the real deal… Why me? & … What can I do for you?
Let’s make a list. 1st – Why me?
I’ve had experience coming out to – Family – Friends – even my students – and …
I’m still alive to tell the tale. Life is the best teacher. (Age does have it’s advantages.)
I can now say… “I’m lesbian and loving it!”
I have some amazing ‘tools’ to share with you that can make ‘coming out’ So much easier!
And lastly but definitely not ‘leastly‘ … I use the “F…” word a lot! If you’ve read any of my ‘stuff’ (eBooks) you probably know what I’m talking about. You know my favourite “F…” word. it’s… FUN! I can’t help it. I love to have fun.
What can I do for you?
First let’s work out if we are a good ‘match’ for working together.
I create a safe space so you feel comfortable during the individual sessions.
Together we’ll work out the best way to Transform your now life into your New life.
You get lots of tips on how to manage your own personal energy. And finally…
I guarantee you will notice results (or others around you will) within the first month (or 4 sessions) or I *totally refund your money*. It’s a ‘no brainer’! You can’t lose! *You must of course do the work as suggested and document it.*
Here’s another question …
- Are you happy living your life by someone else’s rules? Yes or No?
- If Yes, keep doing what you are doing. It is serving you well.
- If No, is NOW the time to make NEW choices to create your NEW life. Are you ready? If so… keep reading.
It is possible to…
Be True To You
Love Your Life!
Look at me! I’ve gone from being totally insecure… worried about everyone and everything and not knowing who I was… to the confident – I’ll live my life MY WAY woman I am now. I Am Lesbian and Loving It:-) I know you can achieve this too.
Yes, I even put myself first these days. Why? If I’m’ not happy, I can make those around me miserable. So, what’s the point? If I make ME happy, those around me will be happier and they can make their own choices that benefit them (or not). And that’s THEIR choice.
We’ve all got choices. We make choices all day long. Some are conscious and most are on ‘auto-pilot’ which means we make them by default, we take what comes.
Wouldn’t you rather be the
Conscious Creator of your life?
Is it time to step out of the old you
and into the REAL YOU?
I’m ready… Are You?
Imagine working with someone who has already been through the ‘tough times’ and has come out the other side Loving her Life. I can show you how to do this, to make this transition, to transform yourself into the Magical Being that you are! And it can be easier than you think. Trust your intuition. If you feel drawn to find out more, just click here for your FREE SOS session (Step Out Strategy session). Pick a date and a time and Hey Presto! It’s that easy. Remember to put it in (or on) your calendar.
Beware … This can be … Life Changing!
I AM Lesbian & Loving It
“Your Guide To Coming Out Easy”